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Monday, July 20, 2015

FIJI Week 1 - Bumps and Blessings

For the first week of July we were immersed in making plans for another island adventure - this time we would be traveling to FIJI!

Larry and I first experienced Fiji in 2001 when we did a trip with some of our family to the remote island of Nacula in the Yasawa chain for a week of scuba diving, snorkeling,  and general relaxation.  While I am not a diver, Larry and his sons had some amazing sights to see.  I thoroughly enjoyed the snorkeling and just spending lazy time in a hammock reading books, looking out over the pristine views of paradise.  It was an incredible experience I've never forgotten. So I was very excited when I learned we would get to go back to this lovely Pacific gem, even though this trip would be spent entirely on the main island of Viti Levu. 


Monday 13 July




Fiji was every bit as beautiful as I remembered.   However, our trip got off to a bumpy start.  We flew directly to Nausori via Fiji Airlines.  It was a very crowded plane with barely enough room to squeeze into…our knees were tight against the seat in front of us the entire time.  But we arrived safely and found our Avis rental car with no problem.  We were not given a street map, but the clerk sketched out general directions to Suva and described how we would find our way to our hotel.  We were a bit nervous, but grateful we had arrived in daylight.  We said a prayer and we were off.

Driving in Suva is not for the faint of heart!  According to World Population Review, the city has a population of 87,000 people with double that if you count the surrounding suburbs. The streets were very narrow and traffic very congested.  Pedestrians would randomly step into the busy street to cross over with no regard to oncoming traffic. Buses would abruptly change lanes or make broad turns, swinging mere millimeters from our car.  I closed my eyes and prayed most of the way through town.   Fortunately, between the skill and confidence of Elder Bennett as a driver and the watchful care of our guardian angels, we made it to Holiday Inn with no problems.

The hotel was lovely and the staff there very welcoming.   We stowed our luggage and got freshened up Then we headed off on foot to get familiar with our new surroundings.  Elder Bennett exchanged some of our NZ dollars for Fijian at Western Union and then we walked on down the road toward the library.  On the way a local man greeted us and noted our name tags. He was eager to have a conversation, but since he spoke only marginal English, we had a very difficult time understanding him.  He led us over to the nearby wharf to show us something.  I was paying careful attention to the man to try to decipher what he was saying.  Unfortunately, that meant I was not paying attention to where I put my feet.   There was an abrupt raised area in the sidewalk I had not noticed.  I tripped on the edge of the rough sidewalk there and went sprawling.  My camera went skittering on the concrete and I fell hard.

My automatic reflex was to try to catch myself with my right hand.  I knew immediately when I landed that I was hurt bad.  As I picked myself and took stock of the situation I noted both knees were bloodied and my shoulder was throbbing.  But it was very apparent the worst damage was to my right wrist.  It began to swell immediately and was deeply painful.   We had barely arrived in country and now I was in serious trouble.  We had no idea where to go for help.

We knew the most sensible thing to do would be to get ourselves to the LDS Service Center.  However, we had absolutely no idea where that might be.  What we did know was that it was right next to the temple. At first we went back to our hotel to ask where to go, but with no street names to guide us they were pretty vague on explaining how to get there.  So we stopped people on the street to ask for directions telling them we were looking for "Big white building with gold man on top!"   This elicited smiles and nods, but at first we couldn't find anyone who we could communicate with.  Eventually we found someone who spoke enough English to point us in the right direction.

As we made our way up a winding road that traversed a hill overlooking the harbor, my hand really began to hurt.  We were both very relieved when we finally saw the gleaming white spire of the Fiji temple with the statue of Angel Moroni and his trumpet confirming we were at the right place.



We were so grateful to have guidance of Sister Knight, the mission nurse.  She took us to Fiji private hospital  and provided support throughout the ordeal.   She was such a blessing!  We also met her husband, Elder Knight, who is responsible for managing the mission finances.  They both were such great folks (from Texas, USA).  Getting to know them was the first of several blessings that came to us which never would have happened had I not been injured.   Over and over throughout the time we were in Fiji we saw evidence of how ALL things, even painful and difficult experiences, could be used to bless our lives

Sister & Elder Knight

After a long wait in the hospital  I was examined by a doctor and had my hand x rayed.  He said that the wrist was fractured and small bones in my hand above the wrist were dislocated.  He made a plaster half cast which was tied on with gauze wrapping which would keep my hand stable but also accommodate the swelling.  Our next decision to make was whether we needed to get right back on a plane to return to Auckland or if we could go ahead with our assignment.

 The following day we were able to get a CD with digital images of the xrays from the hospital.
I emailed these to a hand specialist back in New Zealand.  The doctor said it would not cause further damage to delay treatment, so we opted to remain in Fiji do the best we manage in finishing what we had been sent to do.







Tuesday- 14 July

Tuesday morning we returned to the Service Center to meet with Brother Senikuraciri to discuss our schedule.   On arrival we were very impressed to find the family history center there bustling with activity.  Members from Suva North Stake were there busy searching records.  Many were using the microfilm machines and the computers were put to good use.  The FHC was neat as a pin and very well organized.  The director and consultants were eager to assist patrons and much good work was taking place.


Suva North Stake FHC


We then traveled to Nausori Stake where we did a training for Family History Consultants.
Sister Senikuraciri met us there.

Brother and Sister Senikuraciri

Nausori Stahe Consultants

                                   
The training about the 15-15 goal was well received.  We identified 4 basic skills that many did not know how to do  1) screen capture using the snipping tool   2) merging duplicates in FamilySearch, 3) Using online MyFamily book to select languages  4) how to add photos in the memories section of FamilySearch.   Everyone was eager to practice these skills and were very appreciative.  At the end of the training they sang us a Fijian farewell song so beautifully it gave me se na vutoqu  (goose bumps).

Everyone was very appreciative of what they  learned and there was much laughter throughout our time there.  At the end of that session one of the sisters presented me with a beautiful bouquet from her home green house.



Later that evening we went back to the Nausori Stake  Center for leadership training.

Stake President Alipate Tagidugu and first counselor Manasa Cava work hard to promote My Family 15 in 15 in the Nausori Fiji Stake halves of the blessing.. Each ward in their stake has been assigned specific days to come to family history center. Every month stake leaders follow up. These are inspired leaders who understand importance of getting both halves of the blessing.

Pres Tagidugu on right wirh Pres Cava
Wednesday – 15 July

On Wednesday morning we returned to Nausori FHC to give further training to consultants.  We focused on the skills we had identified, making sure everyone there knew how to do each task and could demonstrate them to others.

That day Sister Senikuraciri accompanied us.  Her husband was working.  At mid-day the three of us went to lunch at a local fish and chips shop.  We then took her home and returned to our hotel.   We rested for a while and then spent much of the evening checking through our email and making plans for upcoming trainings.

Thursday – 16 July

On Thursday morning we went back to the FHC at the service center next to the temple.  By this time we were getting into a rhythm of how to present to the Fiji saints and were more confidant in finding our way around.  That day we would be meeting with consultants from Suva North Stake. We got to the FHC early and spent some time working with a non member family who had come to research their family until the arrival of the consultants. We were able to introduce them to FamilySearch and show them basic research tools which was much appreciated. The consultants arrived about 10:30. As with the Nausori consultants, we found those from Suva North had great enthusiasm for the work but limited technical knowledge.  They were attentive, eager to learn, and grasped the new skills quickly.  They were very pleased to have their individual photos taken which they added to their FamilySearch memories.  Of particular importance was teaching them how to sign on as a helper to assist patrons who had forgotten their user name or password or to prepare pedigree charts for leaders from the 15-15 spreadsheets.

Elder & Sister Bennett with Suva North consultants

Suva North consultants proudly display their 15 in 15 pedigree charts
While we were at the service center we were able to meet the mission president and his wife, along with some of the other senior missionaries.  It was fun to compare notes about each other’s assignments.

Bennetts with Fiji Mission President and his wife, LaMar and Lynette Layton from Draper, Utah
Thursday evening we gave the leadership training for a big group made up of both stake and ward leaders.  It went great!  We were particularly impressed by the first counselor in the Suva North stake presidency—President S. Anil Bhan.  He had formerly been Area Family History Abvisor for Fiji so he was very knowledgeable and had a strong testimony of the work. 

Pres. Bhan on left, Stake Pres Vito Qaqa in center and second counselor Sakiusa Maiwiriwiri on right


Friday – 17 July

We had no appointments on Friday morning, so we walked over to the Fiji museum and spent some time walking through the gardens and viewing the displays there.  Of course, as an entomologist, Elder Bennett especially appreciated the bugs and butterflies!  Because of my background in sociology I loved learning about the various elements of Fiji culture.





While in the museum we watched a demonstration of a woman making traditional ceramics.  I asked her how she learned to make the things she had laid out before her. She said her mother had taught her.  I gave her a MyFamily book and encouraged her to record stories about her family so that future generations would know about the way her culture had been passed down through the generations.




Fiji LDS Church College

That afternoon we had an appointment to see the Fiji LDS Church College (High School). We were  met by the vice principal, Salote Maiwiriwiri, who gave us a full tour of the school.  She talked with us about the way the school has incorporated the MyFamily book into their curriculum.  We also met with  English teacher Thelma Racule who explained how she uses the book as the basis for pre-writing, proofreading, editing and re-write exercises.





English teacher Thelma Racule
We spoke with some of the students and viewed the computer lab which the school has begun opening to wards in their stake for working on the 15 in 15 goal

 Students are  Opeti Salaba on left who is Head boy for the school. On right is Baleibau Duilomaloma

Head girl Savaira Veikoso smiled with joy as she talked about learning stories about her grandparents' lives.



Saturday – 18 July

On Saturday morning Elder Bennett and I got to visit a local park and take a drive along the coastline, spending some relaxing time appreciating the beauty of Fiji.








That evening we did another large group training – this time for Suva stake leaders and consultants.  It was the most powerful of all our sessions.  We felt there were angels in the room with us!


After the meeting the consultants and stake president went with us to the FHC in their stake center.  I trained the consultants on the key skills while Elder Bennett worked with the Stake President, Kamoe Varea, on his pedigree information so he could complete the 15 in 15 challenge.  There were many duplicates to be cleaned up.  Once that was done, however, key ordinance work that had been missing from the chart finally showed up and family information was more complete.  President Kamoe beamed with joy and said over and over how happy he was.


 Pres Varea on left with counselor Jese Kama     
Sunday – 19 July

On Sunday morning we got up bright and early to prepare fpr 8:00 am church services.  We went to church in the Senikuriciri’s Fijian speaking ward which meets in the LDS Church College.  We both spoke in Sacrament and then were called on to help with the temple preparation class.  I was also asked to speak briefly about family history and the 15 in 15 goal in Relief Society.




After church we went home with the Senikuraciris for a lovely feast they had prepared.  We had a nice visit with their family and then went back to our hotel to get packed up in preparation for leaving the following day.



That evening we spent some quiet time reflecting on all we had experienced and feeling very grateful to our Heavenly Father for the blessings he had shown us


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Monday – 20 July

Early Monday morning we checked out of our hotel.  We then headed back to the school where we were scheduled to offer a devotional message for all the teachers and administration.  After that we returned to the service center where we met with Elder Adolph Johannsson.  He is the Service Center manager and the Area Seventy for this region of the Pacific.  (Elder Johansson assist Church leaders in Fiji, New Caledonia, Vanuatu, Kiribati and the Marshall Islands in his ecclesiastical position)We were very impressed by him.




Once those were done we were ready to hit the road…time to travel to the west side of the island (about a 4.5 hour drive) to begin our trainings in Latoka stake.

There are two other things that I do not want to leave out from our record of this magical first week in Fiji:

 First, I noticed early on was that whenever I was teaching I would forget all about my injured arm.  I had quite a bit of pain in the evenings and much trouble sleeping as every time I moved would send shooting pain that woke me up.   Even during the day it was a struggle.  There were also times when I got frustrated and discouraged by the awkwardness of not being able to do much of anything without help.  Fortunately Larry was kind and patient in helping me.  I was very humbled with appreciation for my sweet companion.  When I was teaching, however,  all the hardship just melted away and would lose myself in the zone of what I love to do best.

The second thing is the miracle of finding information about Dallas Olsen’s family.  I have written of that in an earlier post, so I won’t repeat all the details of the story here.  Still, I want it to be part of this record so I can never forget the absolute certainty we felt that the Lord was watching over us on this trip.



Saturday, July 11, 2015

Prayers for Kenna


 One of the biggest spiritual challenges for me is being able to sincerely say to the Lord in times of challenge: "Thy Will Be Done".  Especially when I am praying for the well being of someone I care about deeply, I want with all my heart for God to intervene.  I want Him to take away the pain, to fix whatever horrible or difficult thing has happened.  I know that He CAN do exactly that.  I absolutely believe in a God of miracles.  However, just because He CAN fix any set of hard or painful circumstances we face, does not always mean He will.  

Sometimes we must face terrible, awful things that no amount of praying will remove from us. Sometimes bad things happen as a consequence of our choices, or from other people's choices.  Sometimes things occur simply as a result of living in this fallen mortal world.  We will suffer.  It's part of the plan.  How we choose to respond to those challenges is something that defines each one of us.   Those of us who live by faith wrestle with the paradox of putting our trust in God, asking Him to take away the thorn, but loving and trusting Him all the same if the pain is not taken away.

Last night a member of our family was in a very bad roll over accident.  Makenna Bennett is the daughter of Elder Bennett's nephew.  She is a beautiful girl full of passion for life.  She is 17 years old and had just graduated high school.  She was excited about her upcoming 18th birthday and her plans to go to college.  Then, while coming home from a trip to Lake Tahoe with her boyfriend, they had a tire blow out. The vehicle they were in rolled three times.  Fortunately, they were both wearing seat belts.  Her boyfriend had a concussion, but was able to walk away.  Kenna did not. Her neck was broken.  She is awake and coherent.  But it appears her spinal cord was severed.  She has had some feeling in her arms, but nothing much beyond that.  This is a very, very serious injury that will most likely impact her and all of her family for many years to come.

For anyone who feels prompted to donate for her care you can use this link:  GoFundMe

Jerid feeding chicken broth to his girl
As you can imagine, we have been praying with all our might for this girl and for all her family. We are extending our faith and hope in her behalf.  We recognize that we do not know what Heavenly Father's plan for this beautiful girl's life is. In the coming days and weeks we will learn more about what she may be facing.

But stories from our family in years gone by like the following give me confidence that she CAN be healed:

In the Bennett Family book compiled by Mabel Williams (published 1979) there is a story by John Ambrose Hunter, (1891 to 1980) who was a cousin to my husband's grandfather, Edward Bennett Jr.   This tale is relayed under the title of "Answer to Fasting and Prayer"  
(pages 27 & 29)

"One day two of my neighbors and I decided to fix up a light wagon; Then the children could all go in one wagon.  Mardella Carter, about 16 years old, was to drive.

We cautioned the children to all sit still and not fool while the wagon was moving, but one day my son, Roscoe, and some of the boys got to fooling around. (This was in 1925). Roscoe's leg slipped over the wagon box and got into the wheel as it came around.  It twisted the leg and broke it an inch below the hip, turning the toe to the back and the heel forward.  His school teacher rushed him to Delta to Dr. Wright, and someone came to the farm and told us.  So we all got ready and went to Delta.  


When we got there the leg was swollen very badly with the toe turned backwards.  the doctor said he couldn't do anything with it and said we would have to go to Salt Lake to the hospital.

We had five children, so we phoned to Holden for my mother to send for three of the children to stay with her, LaRue, Sidney and James and we took Madge, the baby, with us. 


We were very poor and did not have enough money to buy a train ticket from Delta to Salt Lake City.  On our way home to McCormick from Delta in our old Model T, we asked the Lord faithfully to open up the way that we might get the money to take Roscoe to the hospital. As we came to the school house in McCormick where a bunch of fellows were building an addition to the school, they came out and inquired of Roscoe's condition.  Then they asked how we were fixed for money for expenses. I said "I guess we will get along". A friend said, "While you were gone to Delta, we have gathered $100 to help you".

When we arrived at the L.D.S. hospital, the doctor took X-ray pictures. They showed the break was splintered like a twisted green willow and they would have to get the swelling down before they could set it. So they put it in traction with a rope from his leg to the ceiling along to another pulley and down to a sandbag for the weight of his body to pull the leg into shape.

I had to go back to McCormick and take care of things there.  Three weeks later, my wife called. She felt very bad and said the doctor's couldn't draw the leg around in position to set it, and they had ordered the operating room for Monday at 8:00 a.m.. I said "Don't let them take that leg off!  I'll come up Sunday night".

After I finished talking to Henrietta, I went to the Primary President and told her. We decided to hold a fast and pray that everything would be alright.  Word was sent to all forty-six families to fast and pray for the Lord to heal that leg.

Sunday morning the doctor came in and said "Mrs. Hunter, I can't understand, this leg has gone and set itself in almost a perfect set.  I will put a cast on it and you can go home. Phone your husband to meet you at the train in the morning".  


A miracle was performed through fast and prayer and is a most wonderful testimony to me that God lives and answers prayers for those who live worthily and puts their trust in him".   

We don't know if the miracle Makenna will get will be to one day walk again or simply to be given the courage and strength to endure whatever limitations she will have.   It is hard to be so far away from our family while all this is going on.  Even though we could not FIX anything by being there, we could help care for the younger siblings, we could prepare meals, we could do the practical things like clean the bathroom and do the wash.  While Kenna's parents are locked into the grueling ICU vigil to learn what  their daughter's status is or can be expected to be, I wish we could be there to give hugs, to hold hands, to share both love and tears.

But no matter where we may be in this world, we can and do send up our faith and prayers.  We fasted today for their family, just as Larry's relatives fasted for young Roscoe all those years before.  We will stay connected through emails and facebook posts. We will help with expenses to the extent that we can.  Then, on a personal level, I will practice again that dance of trusting in miracles AND learning to let go and accept, to say "thy will be done".  

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Outreach in Auckland

We continue to send emails, make phone calls and set up teaching appointments to the various wards and stakes all over Auckland to support members and leaders in learning about family history.   

On Tuesday evening we did a presentation to the youth of the Liahona Ward - one of the Samoan language units here.  Talking to the kids and their leaders was great.  We got as many of the young people signed up to use FamilySearch as we could.  We could only work with a few at a time because the building where we were meeting has limited bandwidth for using the internet.  Also, several of the kids did not have an existing email address, so we first needed to set that up with them before we could get them the free account on FamilySearch.  So progress was slow going.   Still, they were a great group to work with. Many of the young people are excited to begin identifying their ancestors in preparation for their upcoming temple trip.   

A lot of the youth in this ward still have grandparents living in Samoa.  We encouraged them to contact those elders by letter or phone to begin seeking stories about their heritage.

We look forward to following up with the Liahona ward to be sure they understand next steps for finding names and submitting them for temple work.  We are also working with them to encourage them to use the My Family book for recording stories about each generation of their family.  We talked with them about being "Modern Day Nephi's" in their ward, much as Steve Rockwood had explained to the Samoan students when we were on the island of Upolu. 



Liahona Ward Youth signing up for FamilySearch.org 

Leaders over Young Men's and Young Women's organizations in Liahona Ward

We also met with one of the newly called Family History Consultants in the newly formed YSA 2nd Ward.  We made sure she understood what resources were available to her for her calling and answered some of the questions she had.

Shirley Pulusi - YSA 2nd Ward Family History Consultant

We had a terrific meeting with a High Priest Group Leader from another ward, brainstorming ideas about how he can initiate more engagement with the My Family 15 in 15 program for the members of his ward.  We have also started teaching a Family History Sunday School class in our own Auckland 2nd ward.  We are beginning with the leaders to be sure everyone on the Ward Council had done all they can and then will expand out to the rest of the members.  We have had terrific support from our Bishop for that.


Bishop Panama Le'au'anae from Auckland 2nd Ward
I had a lengthy phone conversation just the other day with a woman who has been assigned as the lead consultant for assisting with the Family 15 in 15 program in Redoubt Stake and we continue to work with the Area Advisers who cover other parts of New Zealand.  Bit my bit we are trying to generate a gigantic snowball of enthusiasm for this work.

Sometimes we are doing formal presentations to leadership groups.  Sometimes we are teaching classes.  Sometimes we are having one on one conversations with key unit leaders.  I've been researching an article about the history of family history and planning some activities we can do in other parts of Auckland whenever we are not traveling to the various tropical islands where we are assigned.

In whatever way we can, we are trying to keep our whole focus on strengthening the people of the Pacific in their understanding of the importance of honoring the generations who have gone before.   It's sacred work.  We are often exhausted.  But we are always grateful for our chance to be here.

Saturday, July 4, 2015

Happy Birthday America!

July 4th 2015 - Senior Missionaries serving in the Auckland, New Zealand Mission

Front row on floor Left to right:
Lynda Bennett, Patsy Brereton, Bruce Brereton, Paula Fugal, Jennie Reeves,
 Reed Spencer, Linda Olsen, Judy Terry

2nd row - sitting in chairs - Left to right:
Lilly Ann Cotterell, Carol Wallace, Eve Brunson, Marj O'Lee Irvine, Joy Mickleson,
Susan Winters, Nada Spencer, Gary Olsen

3rd Row - Standing - Left to right:
Dirk Cotterell, Karen Sayers, Randy Sayers, Gil Brunson, John & Debbi Beckstead,
Jim Irvine, Guy Fugal, Myron Micklson, Larry Bennett, Gary Winters, Linda & Robert Martin, Arendje and Allan Whidden, James Terry



Most of the senior missionaries here in Auckland came together Saturday afternoon to celebrate American Independence day.  We have some Australians and Canadians in our midst, but MOST are from the United States.  So we pulled out our red white and blue and threw ourselves a party.   There were silly games, great food, a very touching devotional message presented by Elder Wallace (who will be leaving to go home this month).  We sang My Country Tis of Thee and listened to a wonderful recording of The Star Spangled Banner.   We are all very far away from home, so on special days like this some of us have tender feelings close to the surface.   But right now I can honestly say I know I'm right where I belong and I couldn't find a better group of folks to be serving with.
What's a party without balloons - Sister Reeves is doing a great job of keeping them in the air.


What could be more American than grilling burgers and making root-bear floats?
We played several games - this is Elder Bennett getting into the spirit of things - a tennis ball was put in the toe of a pair of panyhose.  Pantyhose are worn on head.  Hands have to stay behind your back and you swing your head around using the leg of pantyhose with the ball in it to knock over bottles of water... it got pretty silly.



Our good friend Susan Winters won her round of moving skittles from one plate to the other by sucking them with a straw.
            
Elder Bennett guessed the closest number of candies in the jar so he won the peanut m&m's!

The meal was wonderful, and the games gave us all a chance to laugh. But the best part was having time to visit with the other missionaries.  We each have very different assignments and stay pretty busy, so it's always great when we get a chance to come together and catch up.

Our smiling faces!
At the end of the evening as we were preparing to leave we enjoyed some impromptu music and Elder Bennett and Sister Mickleson did some singing together.   It was not anything they had planned or practiced, but since they had a guitar handy (Elder Wallace brought the one he had purchased here to sell to Sister Mickleson since the Wallaces are going home soon). Larry and Joy jumped right in with making music and several of the other senior missionaries gathered around to hear them doing old favorites like Dream by the Everly Brothers and Amanda by Don Williams - also covered by Waylon Jennings.  

These family home evening gatherings truly are special times and leave us some of the best memories we will carry home with us.