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Monday, December 22, 2014

Taulanga Ward

Taulanga Ward Relief Society Choir

The church we will attend here is the Taulanga Ward - a Tongan congregation in Takapuna.  I love the Tongan sisters!   They are so friendly and welcoming.  I am very much looking forward to getting to know them better.

It is a challenge in some respects to be part of this ward since we do not speak their language.  We sit through Sacrament meeting reading our scriptures, praying, and trying our best to be in tune with the spirit while talks are being given that we don't understand at all.  Still, the connections we are making feel important.   Worshiping among these people just feels right.

One very special sister is Sulieti.  She joined the church last March and has a strong testimony.  She is a nurse providing elder care and often has to work night shifts.   She was scheduled for the 3-11 shift Saturday, but then ended up doing a double shift when the 11-7 staff person who was to relieve her did not show up.   By the time she got home on Sunday morning, she was very tired.  But it was important for her to attend her meetings, so she was most definitely in church.

Last night was the Stake Christmas program.   Sulieti knew we were new to the area, so she right away invited to take us if we wanted to go.   Having gone all night with no sleep, it would have been very understandable if she had wanted to just go home after church and get some much needed rest.  However, Sulieti saw an opportunity to serve, and so she did.



We had a lovely time at the music program and were very impressed by the talent of people at the stake.  The Taulanga Ward Relief Society choir sang two songs, one in English and one in Tongan.  Both were absolutely beautiful.  They sounded like angels.

I imagine we may still attend the English speaking Takapuna Ward from time to time so we can make some connections with folks we can communicate with better, but our "home ward" will be Taulanga.

Years ago we visited a small ward in Enterprise, Oregon where we met some of the friendliest people we had ever encountered.  There we were greeted and welcomed by nearly everyone and felt very much valued for our presence there.  Ever since, Enterprise Ward has remained in our minds as a sort of measuring mark for how welcoming any group may be.  More than once we have said "well, this group is nice, but they sure are not Enterprise Ward".

The Tongan saints of Taulanga most definitely meet that high bar of welcoming kindness.   They are wonderful people who I look forward to serving with.

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Meeting Boletta

We are trying to get a handle on what our duties will be here.  So far, our main assignment is to work as office support in the Pacific Area Office for the family history department.   That means we basically have an 8 to 5 job taking care of administrative duties like shipping out equipment to various family history centers throughout the Pacific,  planning programs, maintaining accurate inventory and staffing lists, supporting family history center directors, answering questions, etc.  

Part of the time we will travel to various areas to train leadership about the importance of having strong family history programs and activities in their stakes, wards or branches.  But we don't generally work directly with individuals doing family research.

However, on Friday a woman and her daughter came to the office hoping to find someone to assist her with a particular task on her own family tree. She had done genealogy on paper for many years, but was not familiar with computers so she was not sure of how to submit names in FamilySearch. She wanted help entering the information for her deceased brother and his wife so she could get their names cleared to take to the temple.  


Bolleta came all the way from a small town near Greymouth, on the West Coast of the South Island, seeking help.  She did not have a functioning family history center close to where she lived, so she was hoping that a trip to Auckland would provide the assistance she needed.  Rather than tell her that the Area Office didn't really do that sort of thing, our manager said I could see what I could do to help her out.

                       
Fortunately I had been well trained during the time we were in Mesa taking classes, so in just a few minutes I was able to get her logged on and the necessary information entered into the FamilySearch trees program. With just a few clicks we were able to print out the ordinance request form for her to take to the temple to get her brother's work completed.  The love this woman felt for her sibling was powerfully evident.  Both she and her daughter were so grateful to get this accomplished. It felt wonderful to help make that possible.  

While I knew all the office support tasks I was being assigned were important, and ultimately contributed to the work of preserving family history and leading people to the temple, having someone right there in front of me with a need I could solve had a very different sort of feel to it.  Seeing her beautiful smile and tears in her eyes as she expressed the love she felt for her brother touched my heart in a way that updating spreadsheets never could. It made me feel like a REAL missionary!

I Believe in Miracles



We are now settled into our new home in Takapuna, New Zealand. Our mission has truly begun. Already we have seen the hand of God guiding us in so many ways.It started even before we left the USA.

On our last day in America we said our final goodbyes and then headed off to the airport in plenty of time. We were ever so grateful to our friends, Robert and Merrylyn Chandler, for hosting us at their home in Salt Lake City during the second part of our training. Being able to stay right downtown during that week afforded us the opportunity to fully focus on all we were learning and experiencing rather than spending hours on trains shuttling back and forth from the MTC.
We left the USA on 15 December, although we didn't arrive in Auckland until the morning of the 17th (a combination of both a 13 hr flight and crossing the international date line).The day we left, we arrived at the airport quite early to be sure we got through security and made it to our gate well ahead of boarding. We needn't have rushed. Our flight was delayed two and a half hours. By the time we touched down at Los Angeles, we were already perilously close to the time our flight for Auckland was scheduled to take off.
We rushed and scrambled through the airport to find where we needed to be. We got utterly lost. LAX is a huge international airport with multiple terminals quite far apart.We needed to take a bus, but did not know where to go to meet that bus and were given conflicting information by different people about where we should get off. It was so confusing! We were tired and disoriented. We were nervous about missing our plane. For a few minutes we got quite flummoxed, feeling like country bumpkins in this big, strange place, not knowing what to do next.

So we prayed. HARD.

Finally we did find the right terminal, and then the real rush began. We had a LONG way to go, then needed to go through security screening again. People were lined up in a que that wound round and round. At first we thought we were supposed to be in that line, but later realized that was for people waiting to get boarding passes. We already had boarding passes. So we found someone else to ask directions. We were told the plane was preparing to leave and we would have to RUN.

So we ran. Man, did we run. On our previous plane I had taken off my shoes and put on light slippers to be more comfortable in flight. I had not had time to switch back to my shoes, so I was trying to run in these silly slippers that kept sliding off.  Finally I just took off the slippers and ran in bare feet which was fine until I tried speeding things up by going on the moving walkway.  That path was not meant for bare feet - like stepping on a bed of nails! But once I was on it there was no way to get off until I got to the end so I just ran anyway.

We scrambled, we rushed, we prayed that we would make that plane.   Over and over I kept saying "If Heavenly Father can part the red sea He can get two bewildered missionaries where they need to be."

Signs were predominately is other languages. There were few Caucasian faces. Although still technically on American soil, we already felt as if we were in a strange country. We took wrong turns a couple of times. But finally we went pounding up to our exit gate just as they were were preparing to close the door.  WAIT! We cried, we're here!  We are HERE!

With calm, gracious patience the attendants smiled at us and directed us to our seats.   We made it.  We actually made it.   For some unexplained reason that plane had been held far past when it was supposed to take off.  There were no technical problems.  There was no bad weather.  It wasn't an issue of other planes ahead of us.  They just somehow took a little longer than usual with each step of their check in and moseyed their way through signing off on paperwork.   Somehow, someway, they just didn't feel ready to leave yet.  Until we arrived.  Then they took off almost immediately.

That was no coincidence.  That was not happenstance.   That was a miracle, as far as I am concerned. One of many.

I won't go into detail here about others -
The Miracle of the phone
The Miracle of the Christmas Tree
The Miracle of Song

Suffice it to say that over and over we have seen things happen that there is absolutely no rational explanation for. In each case, we see our needs being met, our steps being guided, our hearts being comforted, our certainty of this mission being confirmed as being exactly where we need to be no matter what sacrifices we have to make.
I am of two minds about these sort of miracles.  To some extent, I believe we are being truly blessed because off our willingness to serve.   I think there may be some very special protections that come to missionaries as a result of all the many prayers said in our behalf.   At the same time, I also believe that miracles surround all of us each and every day. Most people, however, are so caught up in their own concerns that they simply do not recognize them.

I think one of the things that leads to us seeing so many powerful experiences like this right now is simply that we are making a very deliberate effort to be in tune with spiritual things, and that is allowing us to see things in a different light.

For me, that is a very powerful thing.

Saturday, December 20, 2014

TREES

One of the first things we noticed on our arrival to New Zealand is all the many different kinds of trees, shrubs, vines and flowers we encountered. There are so many shades and textures of GREEN beyond anything I've ever experienced. Anyone who knows me all will know I have an absolute passion for trees and flowers. I couldn't even consider buying a new home when we came to Boise four years ago simply because they had no mature trees in the yard. Many times during our search for just the right place, my sweet husband would bring up an image on the Internet of a great house well within our budget, calling me excitedly to show off a perfect kitchen or a wonderful location. Each time I would respond the same: "Does it have trees?" No trees mature was an absolute deal breaker for me.

That's why I held out for the place we have now - a modest late 70's ranch. Our home absolutely meets our needs, but is nothing fancy or special, so far as the house itself is concerned.  But the yard was exactly what I wanted, a true sanctuary of trees, stone walkways, and lush flowerbeds which sooth my soul.


Granted, we have taken out a few trees (several VERY tall pine trees, a locust tree and a couple of fringe trees) to open things up a bit, but we still enjoy lots of shade, privacy, and shifting color with the seasons, which matters to me a lot.

So you can imagine my delight as we have begun to explore our surroundings here.  The abundance of trees and flowers everywhere is truly stunning.  It rains A LOT, which can at times be a bit dreary.  But the payoff of all that precipitation is lush green woodlands and plants that would not grow otherwise.



On a recent walk to Lake Pupuke I was enchanted by this gorgeous j
acaranda tree with an abundance of blue/purple flowers.  The smell is truly heavenly!




Native to Bolivia and Argentina, the Jacaranda Tree is planted worldwide for its beautiful flowers. 


Another tree we see a lot of is the Pohutakawa tree, which has lovely red blooms that come out in late December, making it known as the "New Zealand Christmas Tree"




(we took these photos along Takapuna beach after our arrival).

Another favorite is the Norfolk Island Pine.  These  trees can grow "to a height of 60 metres (200 feet), with a trunk sometimes reaching 3 metres (10 feet) in diameter" (Encyclopedia Britannica) so they often tower over other trees. as seen in the distance in this photo, also taken at Lake Pupuke.

 

 Here is a closer look at a Norfolk Island Pine from another Auckland Mission Blog,  Search Ponder and the Pacific:



Then there are the cabbage trees that look like something Dr. Suess would have come up with:



There is so much all around us that is unrecognizable to me, from the patterns of the stars in the sky at night (Southern cross rather than big and little dipper) to the birds we see flitting in the trees.  At times I feel wobbly and disoriented by the complete unfamiliarity and strangeness of all I see and hear.  Still, I am awed by the beauty that is New Zealand.  This truly is an amazing place.


Thursday, December 18, 2014

Planes, Trains and Automobiles

In the words of the Grateful Dead, "What a long, strange trip it has been".  We've done a lot of traveling over the past little while. We left our home in Boise on October 19.  First we went to Arizona. The six weeks we spent there were a very special part of this journey.  From Arizona we went on to Utah for our training at the MTC and in Salt Lake.  That was a spiritual fire hose.  And now we have accomplished the last leg of our journey - bringing us half way across the world.  We've lived out of suitcases and feasted on anticipation.  Now the time is here to truly begin.

Elder Bennett on the plan to Auckland
Me on the Front Runner Train
From Orem to SLC



I've been reflecting on how much things have changed from the early days of the church when missionaries were sent out.  We've gone from "crossing the plains" to "crossing in planes" to build up the kingdom.

Our flight on Air New Zealand was very comfortable.  While 13 hours seemed like a long flight, considering we just went half way around the world it really wasn't that long.


We were fed both dinner and breakfast. The meals were actually quite yummy!



Everyone on the plane had their own screen with many different choices of what to watch or listen to for entertainment to pass the time.   Elder Bennett was watching one of his favorite TV shows:  "Arrow".   Someone to the left of me was watching the classic American movie "Gone With The Wind".   I chose a New Zealand Movie, "The Pa Boys"  (about a fictional reggae band touring the country).  
Everyone watches their own screen



Many movie choices!

And now we are finally here, in Auckland, New Zealand.

Let the adventure begin.





Sunday, December 14, 2014

The MoTab Christmas Concert

Christmas concert pictures from YouTube video

One of the fun things we got to do with my pal Alice was go the Christmas concert of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir.  Jeff and Alice's oldest son, Josh, sings in the choir.  We always watch for him during conference broadcasts or anytime we have had an opportunity to view Music and the Spoken Word.  This was our first chance ever to hear the choir perform in person.  

They put on quite a show with the Muppets and and Santino Fontana as guests.  





 As we walked out from the show we saw Santa Clause speed by on a bright yellow motorcycle

Photo by Alice Walker

and we got to take in the Christmas lights on Temple Square

Temple Lights photos from Mormon Newsroom


My emotions were all over the map as it really begin to sink in that we would be very far away from home on Christmas.  The enormity of our decision was hitting hard.  I felt grateful, scared, sad, and excited all at the same time.

Realizing the next two Christmases would be spent in a land far away and that I would not be seeing my family for the next 23 months brought a lump to my throat.  I kept fighting back tears.  Yet through it all, I knew without question that I was exactly where the Lord wanted me to be.  That knowledge is what sustained me through all the confusion.  I was ready for the big adventure to begin.

The Power of Friendship

Jeff & Alice Walker in 1983
When they came with us to the
Washington DC Temple
One of the last things we did before leaving the USA was go visit our dear friends in Orem, Jeff and Alice Walker.   We love their family more than we can say!

We first met the Walkers in 1982 when we were both living in Ohio.   They were my very first LDS friends.  


Although I was raised in the church and was baptized when I was eight, my family was not strong in the church and I fell away in my youth.   From the time I was 13 until around 24, I really didn't think of myself as being "Mormon" at all.  Had anyone asked me, I would have said that was my mother's church.  I did not think it would ever have anything to do with me.

However, when Larry and I got together, Ray Bigler - the Bishop who married us - gave us a subscription to Ensign magazine as a wedding present.   Always an avid reader, I was happy to receive it and took interest in the articles each month.   Knowing my new husband came from a strong LDS family with pioneer heritage, I was interested to learn more about his beliefs.

Over time I started reading other LDS information and books.   I still did not have any real belief in the teachings, but I was ready to learn more.  By the time we moved from Arizona to Ohio in February of 1982 my curiosity had begun to open up to a genuine desire to know if the things I was learning about were more than just interesting stories.  I wanted to know if it was true.

However, having been living apart from the church for such a long time, I wasn't at all sure how comfortable I would be with the the Latter-day Saint people socially.  My approach to life had been very, very different than LDS Church standards.  My beliefs, habits, and overall outlook had taken me down a very different road.  No matter what I came to think about the teachings of the faith, would I ever feel like I "fit in" with these people?    I definitely had my doubts.

And then I met Jeff and Alice Walker.   To say that I was "rough around the edges" is a gross understatement for that period of my life.  Yet they welcomed me into their home and into their hearts.  Alice and I became close friends right from the start.   We did not have a lot in common.  But it didn't matter.  She was my spiritual sister.  She was my dear friend.   And that has never changed.

The Walker Family
Red headed "Dawn" was a babe in arms when our friendship began

Though we both have moved to different parts of the country and have gone through a lot of ups and downs in our lives since those early days back in Ohio, sometimes going years between speaking to one another, the torch of our friendship has continued burning bright.

And now there is another layer to that friendship.  When I met Alice, her daughter, A. Dawn, was just a baby in arm.   Today that little baby has grown up into a remarkable woman with children of her own.   I enjoy all of Jeff and Alice's children very much.  Dawn, however, is the "marker baby" that has always been the line in time of how long we've known their family.  Beyond that she's just a genuinely nice person who I have enjoyed getting to know as an adult.   Having the chance to visit with her too while we were in Orem was icing on the cake.

As Elder Bennett and I rode the train back to Salt Lake from Orem I was reflecting a lot over the power this friendship has had on my life over the years.

In speaking about what new members of LDS faith require in order to continue in the gospel, Gordon B. Hinkley once said: 
"Every one of them needs three things: a friend, a responsibility, and nurturing with “the good word of God” (Moro. 6:4). It is our duty and opportunity to provide these things."  (April 1997)
 

I know that for me, all of those things mattered a lot.   I do not know that I would have had the strength to make the transition from my worldly ways to living the standards of the LDS faith without the love and acceptance of my good friend Alice.   She has truly been a pivotal person in my life.

I have been blessed over the years to have her in my heart.  Jeff and Alice went with us as witnesses when Elder Bennett and I were sealed for time and all eternity in the Washington DC temple.   We were there for them (spiritually and emotionally if not always in person) during some of the big challenges they faced.    Through all our long, convoluted journeys of life, this friendship has mattered tremendously.

During the 20 years I was teaching sociology in various community colleges across the country I used to tell my students that human beings are "hard wired" to require social relationships.  Whether you are an introvert or an extrovert, to some degree or another, we all need other people.  I need them ferociously.   Friends matter a lot to me in order for me to feel at peace in this world.   I have been so fortunate to have found some mighty good friends.